Having to figure out new ways to get out of work.

Have you ever been with someone and felt yucky? Maybe you had weird, unpleasant thoughts that seemed to have nothing to do with that person or anything else. Or, you entered a house or were in some new place and strange thoughts came into your mind. You didnt understand them and didn't like them. But like being drawn toward a black hole, you couldn't stop until you got away from that person or left that space. What was going on?

Let's say that the game of this universe is exchange of viewpoints. You say something, the other person says something, and you see what each other thinks. This is a physical phenomenon, meaning one actually moves into the space of that other individual. As things get more solid and relatively slower this apparency of movement can be lost, but when we move anywhere, "mentally" or physically, we are occupying space as a means to observe.

At some point one does not completely observe a viewpoint. We look at an idea or opinion and don't fully understand it. The partial space of that viewpoint may get dragged along with us past that point. 

We all now have quite a bit of this space that we are creating outside of present focus. It is in effect unconsciously created space. When we look in the past as in "counseling", we are really just seeing the space we are creating unconsciously and trying to understand it. 

If you put attention on someone who is lugging along this space, you may occupy that space, creating it yourself. The "black hole" feeling of being sucked in comes because you also are creating it unconsciously to some extent. At least in the fact  that you don't know what is going on. We want to know our creations so it seems hard to stop. It is like being in a dream where you don't know you're dreaming. The way to overcome this is to create consciously. If you know you are creating space it is just another space no matter what is in it,  Not so easy to do with anything unreal, of course.

People who have "crimes" may have present focus on space with those crimes. It should be possible to observe that focus, that viewpoint, with nothing except understanding.

The more one looks at this universe as a physical phenomenon, with structure, and figures out one's' place in it, the easier it can be to deal with life. One is getting perspective. This may mean letting go of some ideas. But there are always new ideas, new perspectives, and a larger space to look from where understanding of why men do these strange things is possible. Not just from the idea that one ought to have peace and love in one's heart. There's nothing wrong with that, but seeing what is really there is a bit different.  My experience.

Eunuch

We have not met
For the last time
This world is too small
Stars too close

Galaxies and The Seraphim
Insufficient
To unbind our contract
We are firm

As vapor taken
commonly with air
dissolves density
along its flowing path

Does your passage
clarify existence
releasing from confusion
the breath of wonder

If love desires
another form to
complete the whole
I would have yours

And in this tryst
hope you may build
completion
by any gift
my open heart can yield

Which reminds me of a story about a young lad who broke into his mother's bridge club with the urgent message, "Mommy, I gotta pee!". Mommy, taken aback by the intrusion marched him to the bathroom, telling him "Timmy, don't SAY pee, whisper!"
That night after all were asleep the father was awakened by a similar urgent message. "Daddy, I gotta whisper".
"Alright" said the cooperative father, "Whisper in Daddy's ear".

The general at podium
reviews troops of his opposite
An inner sneer directed
at their dandified hop and step

His self-assured smile
deludes even the bearer
Cold arrogance tamped
so hard upon the terror

Thy heart is a river
which will not stay its bank
but washes over
wide countryside
donning green favors
as thine own

I see this spreading
vast effluence yet
tiller in hand, rudder firm
have no bearing or
landmark to remain
in current's course

And I fear tto find
this flood receded
with all again perceived
my ship aground and landlocked
too far to gain again
the sailing shore

Is this a trick question?